Monday, April 5, 2010

Single in the city



On Saturday past I got to spend the day with one of my closest and dearest friends "Tatum"aka "Taits".We were more so excited that we were going to see each other as I have not seen Tatum since she did the More to Life course.We now as I mentioned to Grant "belong to the same tribe."LOL No...no people it is not a cult or anything zany.We met at the "Osumo" at Canal Walk and got chatting over breakies.Of course no one else would get a chance to gap in when we get chatting.Our phones are in the background and its just heart to heart chats.We had a yummy breakies I might add.I had the bircher muesli with cinnamon and grated apple and Tatum has the health breakies-fruit and muesli.We had a vida coffee to accompany this yummy breakies but let me tell you that this was the first time I found the service to be sloppy!!!Anyhoo the blog entry this time around is NOT about service standards which as you know is one of my biggest passions in life.We decided to leave the mall as I really do not like being in this big indoor buildings without fresh air and being able to see the beauty of nature.Before we left Tatum asked if we could go past "Browns." I thought as in the clothing store as it was Grants bday and Tatum had not got him anything yet and then a few mins later I clicked that Tatum said she wanted me to see what she has in mind and share it with me....the rock!!!!!Silly me!Just shows how I do not think in those lines.I must say that it was the weirdest feeling sitting there seeing Tatum trying on rings and talking ring lingo with the assistant.Clueless me sat there admiring all the bling and when the assitant asked me if I would like to try something on as I do not have to be getting married to do(Duh!!!) I had this turn in my tummy at the thought of one day making this huge step in my life and having to compromise my selfish life at the moment where I do not have to consider another.Tatum also asked me later in the afternoon if I was ready to meet someone which got me thinking if I have given off vibes all this time that I aint.Well the answer is "YES" I am open to it and I have been telling people for the longest time now that "HE" is looking for me and everyday I feel he is a day closer to finding me.Life as it is is booming for me and 2010 is my year so if he joins me for the adventures of 2010 that will be swell and if not thats just as swell.Girls often say they are tired of people saying "When the time is right..." but you know what??I truely believe in my heart that when the universe would like to send someone-a life companion my way it will.For now I will continue enjoying being "Single in the City..."

1 comment:

Golden Age said...

Sis - I was thinking along these lines with you in my mind this past weekend.....you are giving SO much to the universe right now....it will soon give back to you :)